Sexual problems

In general, men talk about their sexual conquests, not for their sexual concerns. Try to keep the strong male image, including the impression that they are fantastic in bed and have no problems (except that it never reached them). In fact, men feel responsible for sexual obsotyatelstva - to reach the woman to hold the place to deal skillfully with the foreplay, and to bring both of their orgasms. Besides, too many males think that sex has meaning only in one respect: they believe that sharing their feelings and problems, to be kind and caring to do things together, which she likes to get to know each other in better, etc. Women are stupid things. These men simply do not understand: love is not good in the penis and the heart and brain. If our sex drive just to climax, then we'd just masturbate. Sex is a mental and interpersonal process, not just a physical act. And because men assume all these responsibilities nedorazbiraniya, sexual relations and the truth is that they have many sexual problems.

Men who have a hostile attitude towards shuvinistko and women are more prone to rape, sexual harassment, and violence of children and adult women. About 2 million girls a year are sexually abused by her father, brother or another relative, and another 3 million from a rapist. Until 16 years 20% of girls were victims of such harassment. Moreover, approximately 25% of all girls become victims of rape or attempted rape, 60% of which was a meeting. These statistics are reflected very serious problems with sexual aggressiveness in men.

As more women demand equality and become sexually active men have more interest to be well informed. They understand what is the difference between them and women. There are several notable books about male sexual anatomy, sexual function, sexual techniques, sexual communication, sexual diseases, sexual problems, etc.

According to anonymous surveys, half of men say they are not happy with their sex lives (many of them complain about their wives). Most do not consult professional help, but many private therapists, the most common problem is "I looked up and of course vice versa, cum too fast." Most men had little experience with weak or partial erection, especially when they are drunk, tired, busy, missing their solitude, or a new partner. Distress is a common factor here. When a man can not get an erection during more than 25% of the time it is called "impotence." According to the facts, most erection problems begin with a physical problem, such as diabetes, drug and alcohol abuse, drugs for high blood pressure. So go to urologist. There injections for impotence, if it can not be cured by other means. Psychological effects of impotence are included in the problem, of course. In most cases of erection problems can be cured with a combination of physical and psychological treatment.

The average male has several erections a night, even 65 years on the penis is erect and a half hours a night. If you do not have erections and after examination and treatment for physical problems, you need psychological treatment. Most therapists treat erection problems by (1) training on how to satisfy her husband partner without using his penis and (2) or stimulation of the penis from a partner a few times (without interruption or ejaculation) while men make sure that happens. The relationship must also be reinforced. There is a book in which there are ways to help themselves to this problem. A variety of psychotherapy is effective in 2 / 3 of cases, reflecting the role of psychological and interpersonal factors. But do not overlook natural causes, they are important.

Concern comes when for the first time you do it twice, panic - the second time you do it once.

Rapid and copious ejaculation can certainly be considered rather as a sign of potency, rather than a sign of inadequacy. But if a woman wants to reach climax only during the act only through stimulation of the penis, the rapid ejaculation is a problem called "pre-ejaculation. Almost all men occasionally svashvat earlier than they wanted. Perhaps 20 percent of men have a problem with controlling ejaculation, but only 20% or less of this group seek help for this problem. This can be changed.

Several things can help in pre-ejaculation: (1) use a condom to reduce stimulation, (2) a drink or two before sex (3) think of other things, (4) ejaculates twice (usually not pre-ejaculation problem is the second time), (5) Satisfy your partner in another way and then both enjoy a strong male climax (6) does not insert his penis well massaging the penis and clitoris with his play around the opening of the vagina or penis scored leave completely and concentrate on its friction point in G (depending on what she likes the woman), (7) stimulation of the penis stop before you cum and relax for a moment, and (8) use the squeeze technique. The latter method involves squeezing the penis (tip of the fingers and thumb at the base) just before you do. This is done just before work to repeal ejaculation. Strongly reduces the desire to wring ejaculation. Thus, women can teach men to retain his erection.

There are other male problems, such as can not ejaculates into the vagina or to take some time to happen. This is a rare but treatable by the therapist. May have connectivity problems. But obezchuvstvyavasht process can be tried, which includes the following steps: (1) masturbating himself, thinking of your partner for a week, (2) masturbating to half during the next one week, (3) to satisfy your mate next week and (4) to be roused to ejaculation and then inserting the penis into the vagina. After successfully ejaculates into the vagina so several times, the fear usually disappears. This procedure is successful in more than 75% of cases.